| | |  | | Home » The 3rd Alternative: Solving Life's Most Difficult Problems | | | | | | | Description: | | From the multimillion-copy bestselling author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People—hailed as the #1 Most Influential Business Book of the Twentieth Century—The 3rd Alternative introduces a breakthrough approach to conflict resolution and creative problem solving. One of Time magazine’s 25 most influential Americans, Dr. Stephen R. Covey has helped millions transform their lives. In The 3rd Alternative, Covey turns his formidable insight to a powerful new way to resolve professional and personal difficulties and create solutions to great challenges in organizations and society. In any conflict, the 1st Alternative is my way and the 2nd Alternative is your way. The fight usually boils down to a question of whose way is better. There are many methods of “conflict resolution,” but most involve compromise, a low-level accommodation that stops the fight without breaking through to amazing new results. The 3rd Alternative is about more than just an armistice—it’s about creating a new and improved reality. A departure from the usual approaches to conflict resolution, negotiation, and innovation, this book reveals a new way of thinking that will be embraced not only by the many fans who have flocked to Covey’s prior books, but also by anyone who is seeking solutions in their professional or personal lives. The 3rd Alternative transcends traditional solutions to conflict by forging a path toward a third option, a 3rd Alternative that moves beyond your way or my way to a higher and better way—one that allows both parties to emerge from debate or even heated conflict in a far better place than either had envisioned. With the 3rd Alternative, nobody has to give up anything, and everyone wins. To a world of escalating strife and contention, 3rd Alternative thinkers like those Covey profiles here bring creative solutions, peace, and healing. Through key examples and stories from his work as a consultant, Covey demonstrates the power of 3rd Alternative thinking. His wide-ranging examples include: a Canadian metropolitan police force that transformed a crime-plagued community by abandoning their “them vs. us” mentality and changing the whole definition of police work; a father who rescued his troubled daughter from years of despair and near suicide in one surprising evening; a judge who brought a quick, peaceful end to one of the biggest environmental lawsuits in American history without setting foot in a courtroom; the principal of a high school for the children of migrant workers who raised their graduation rate from a dismal 30 percent to 90 percent and tripled their basic skill levels; a handful of little-known people who are quietly finding new ways to bring peace to the Middle East; and many others. These various groups and individuals offer living examples of how to create new and better results instead of escalating conflict, as well as how to build strong relationships with diverse people based on an attitude of winning together. Beyond conflict and compromise, The 3rd Alternative unveils a radical, creative new way of thinking. It is a groundbreaking but practical work that demonstrates why 3rd Alternative thinking represents the supreme opportunity of our time. | | | Product Details: | | | Author:
| Stephen R. Covey | | Hardcover:
| 480 pages | | Publisher:
| Free Press | | Publication Date:
| October 04, 2011 | | Language:
| English | | ISBN:
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20 of 23 found the following review helpful:
A Paradigm Shift in the True Sense of the Word!Oct 05, 2011
By Terry Lyon Anyone who has read the 7 Habits will know this is not just a reiteration of Habit 6. This book really hits the heart of Win-Win and shows so profoundly what a real win-win is all about and how you can come up with a solution that is greater than you could have ever imagined. It is not simple to achieve synergy, but this book shows such great examples of how it has been reached.
This is a must read for everyone! World leaders, politicians, business leaders, companies of all sizes, universities, colleges, schools, hospitals, county, city, state and federal agencies, husbands, wives, teenagers all can gain valuable insight from this remarkable book.
28 of 34 found the following review helpful:
Not much new; mostly examplesOct 13, 2011
By Peppypilot I have always been a Covey fan and have used his 7 Habits extensively. In that book, he packaged some great concepts together very well and made them very concrete and usable.
Frankly, I was disappointed with this book. I did not really see anything new - just a re-packaging of 7 Habits' concepts and lots of examples: Think win-win; reach out to the other guy to really listen; synergize.
Also, maybe I have changed, but I now find his tone heavy-handed and "teachy."
I really had hoped for something new and fresh - but I didn't find it.
9 of 11 found the following review helpful:
Worthwhile But Not Ground BreakingOct 29, 2011
By Book Fanatic This book by Stephen Covey is not earth shattering or particularly innovative. There is nothing really "new" here. However, having said that the book does do an excellent job at 1) Explaining his thesis and 2) Showing how it works in the real world.
Covey is correct in what he says and he says it very well. I think there is tremendous value in the chapter that explains the 3rd Alternative (through page 85). What follows are fairly long chapters that describe real world examples of 3rd Alternative thinking at Work, Home, School, the Legal System, Society, and the World respectively. I was not that interested in some of those chapters and others I found quite useful.
So if you are involved in conflict in any of those areas, I do think this book would be very useful. I skimmed some chapters because I wasn't interested and frankly he is saying the same things and after a while you get it. It's too long for the general reader but if you are having problems in even one of those areas it's worth the price of the book.
6 of 8 found the following review helpful:
Fundamentals Need to Be RevisitedOct 26, 2011
By Sista Soldier
"Sista Soldier"
I have been dealing with some political conflicts in our community and trying to figure out how to be a part of making things better, but I've been stuck. I've been so sure that I'm going to get out and say what needs to be said, but something has been holding me back and now I know what it was. My intentions, my goals, my view of others and the situation were a bit off because of the nasty nature of politics and it just didn't sit well with me. So I've been stuck. I'm grateful that I did not take action with the "paradigm" I've been functioning under. Thanks for the reminder! Some times we need to go back to basics. We often are able to deepen our understanding and internalization of the concepts if we have been able to grow since the last time we hear the message. This has been very powerful for me.
3 of 4 found the following review helpful:
An article that was stretched to be a bookJan 16, 2012
By Najeeb Abdullah Al Sharafi If you know the books written by Covey such as the 7 habits or the 8th habit. This is nothing like them. It is a book with four ideas to the 3rd alternative and could have easily been covered in an article. Read the book and you will feel that it is a stretch to become a book. And I assure you that what you will actually take from the book can be summerized in 2-3 pages max.
Don't waste your money on this book. Go for the book Crucial Conversations. It is an amazing book with so much covered in handling conflict.
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