| | |  | Security Jobs | Home » » I Love a Cop, Revised Edition: What Police Families Need to Know | | | | | | | Product Promotions: | | | | | Description: | | Nothing worth doing is easy--and that includes loving a cop. Being a member of the law enforcement community is a source of pride for officers and families alike. But long hours, unpredictable shifts, and the crisis-driven nature of the profession can turn life on the home front into an emotional roller coaster ride. Dr. Ellen Kirschman, a psychologist who’s worked with police officers for more than 20 years, gives you practical ways to deal with the challenges that come with the territory. Packed with stories from cops and their significant others, this book explains how to reduce spillover from on-the-job stress and cope with loneliness or worry during extended deployments. Dr. Kirschman acknowledges the tough realities of post-9/11, post-Katrina law enforcement, and she offers frank, realistic suggestions for handling serious issues like alcohol abuse and domestic violence. She also covers special topics for women and minorities on the force. Whether you read it from cover to cover or reach for it when problems arise, I Love a Cop is an indispensable tool that everyone in your family can depend on.
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| Ellen Kirschman PhD | | Paperback:
| 340 pages | | Publisher:
| The Guilford Press | | Publication Date:
| December 16, 2006 | | Language:
| English | | ISBN:
| 159385353X | | Product Length:
| 8.92 inches | | Product Width:
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11 of 11 found the following review helpful:
Intended especially for the loved ones of police offersApr 12, 2007
By Midwest Book Review Written by clinical psychologist Ellen Kirschman, Ph.D., whose specific area of expertise lies in helping police officers and their families, I Love a Cop: What Police Families Need To Know is a straightforward, "tell-the-facts" guide, now in a newly revised edition, written especially for the significant others, spouses, and family members of police officers. Being a cop is a demanding job, and sometimes the very skills required for competence - such as being able to suppress strong emotions like fear, anger, or even compassion - are harmful to officers' private and personal lives if carried over to the home. I Love a Cop gives practical, no-nonsense advice to what to expect from the demands of the job, coping with stress or trauma, and much more. Of especial value are the chapters about dealing with domestic abuse, threats of suicide, or other severe cases and problems - including how to recognize the warning signs and when there is no other option than to just get out. Though I Love a Cop is intended especially for the loved ones of police offers, its solid advice is also highly recommended for the loved ones of anyone in a high-stress, risky or demanding occupation. I Love a Cop is also highly recommended as supplemental reading for anyone considering a policing career, as there is also plenty of sage wisdom about what to expect on the job and how to balance demands of the job with those of family life.
9 of 9 found the following review helpful:
good information to haveMay 04, 2008
By copmomma This book is pretty good at explaining what goes on in police families although a lot of families, mine included, are not really included in this book. I guess you could say we have a good family life and my husband does not bring his work home with him. We do talk about everything though so I am not shut out of his work. It gave me a better understanding of the stresses he has to deal with and what to look out for in case hethings change. Again, good book but more from a clinical point of view.
8 of 8 found the following review helpful:
MUST HAVE BOOKFeb 13, 2008
By A. Davis This is a must have for anyone going into, thinking about going into or already in Law enforcement; especially if you are married or getting married. This book will help prepare you for the social and personal hardships you will face as a police officer. The author uses real stories from police family's to give the reader ways of working out problems in the family unit that are caused directly because of work. This book will not only help you as the cop prepare for whats to come but it will help your loved once understand what you go through on a daily basis and give you the tools you need to have a healthy relationship while serving your community.
3 of 3 found the following review helpful:
Educational and RealisticDec 28, 2007
By 22 This was one of the most educational books I have ever read. It is a little hard to read at times because it's so realistic. But that is the beauty of this book! If your dating a cop or if you are married to one, you should read this. I am very grateful for the men and women in law enforcement.
2 of 2 found the following review helpful:
Required reading for ANYONE in a relationship with a Law Enforcement Officer!Oct 20, 2010
By Peek_Inside_Books All I can say is that having been married to a cop, and having been served with a "surprise" divorce, PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THIS BOOK HAS TO SAY! I swore that there were things that I would never experience...that he was "different," but he indeed "fit the mold." Addictions "can be" part of what cops struggle with, and can be positively adamant about denying. Take note about the thrill-seeking. I read this while we were dating, but I should have re-read this once things felt uneasy once we were living together after marriage. The information in this book covers things he was unable or unwilling to articulate. Take heed! A MUST for anyone in a relationship with a Law Enforcement Officer.
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